Pamela Jane (Small) Stubbs, 68, passed away peacefully on February 19, 2024 at home surrounded by her family. Pam was born on May 24, 1955 to Donald and Constance (Reeves) Small.
Pam attended Hampden schools and there she met her husband of 52 years, Robert “Bob” Stubbs, Jr. They welcomed their son, Robbie, whom they adored. Pam worked locally for many families, caring for their homes, and bringing a laugh or two along the way.
In her younger years, she and Bob enjoyed snowmobiling and were members of the Hampden Snowmobile Club. Pam enjoyed helping with the monthly bean suppers. Pam loved music; her favorites being The Beatles and 80’s hair bands. She was able to play the guitar and piano “by ear”. She played guitar and sang at several family weddings and events, but she especially enjoyed getting together and picking with her cousins.
Pam is survived by her childhood sweetheart, Robert Stubbs, Jr.; sisters, Judy Belcher and Susan McLain; brother, Mike Smith; several nieces and nephews, and many cousins. She was predeceased by her beloved son, Robert “Robbie” Stubbs III, and several aunts, uncles, and cousins. Dogs were special to Pam, and she fondly remembered her “Abbey”.
A graveside service will be held in the spring at Locust Grove Cemetery, Hampden. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Bangor Humane Society at 693 Mount Hope Ave., Bangor, ME 04401. Condolences to the family may be expressed at BrookingsSmith.com.
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